• Hello & Welcome!

    We're Kim and Mike O'Connell — married, in practice together, and building something we believe in deeply: therapy that actually understands the shape of your life.

    We specialize in ADHD-affirming therapy — including late-diagnosed women and couples where one or both partners are neurodivergent — and in advanced couples therapy for the real, complicated stuff: high conflict, infidelity, disconnection around intimacy, and the slow drift that happens even in good marriages. We work with couples and families across the whole life cycle, from engaged couples preparing for marriage to couples who've been together 40+ years navigating what connection looks like now.

    If any part of that sounds like you, we'd be glad to talk.

  • Who We Work With

    If any of this sounds like you, you're in the right place.

    For Couples & Families

    ○ Couples navigating high conflict, infidelity, or disconnection around intimacy

    ○ Couples where one or both partners are neurodivergent — ADHD, autism, or both

    ○ Couples and families adjusting to a major life transition — a new baby, empty nest, retirement, illness, or loss

    ○ Long-term couples — married 10, 20, or 40+ years — wanting to reconnect

    ○ Couples who want to learn how their patterns interact to create space for deeper communication and collaboration

    ○ Parents and adult children navigating closeness and differences as they age and grow into new versions of their relationship

    ○ Parents of young or school-age kids wanting to parent well and create real connection amid the chaos of this season

    For Individuals

    ○ Women recognizing their ADHD for the first time in adulthood

    ○ Individuals working through anxiety or depression

    ○ People processing a recent breakup and wanting to understand patterns behind it

    ○ People working through family-of-origin dynamics or healing generational trauma

    ○ Single adults — newly divorced or never married, navigating dating and modern relationships

    ○ Men navigating anxiety, depression, fatherhood, or relationship struggles they've never quite had the language for

    ○ Men untangling complicated relationships with mothers or maternal figures and how those patterns show up in their adult relationships

  • Our Services!

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    Individual Counseling

    A lot of what brings people to individual therapy is relational at its core — a recent breakup, family-of-origin patterns, generational trauma, or the disorientation of dating again after divorce or as a single adult. We also see plenty of high achievers whose success on paper doesn't match how exhausted they feel underneath it, people navigating anxiety and depression that crept in quietly and stayed, and people carrying grief that's looking for a place to be witnessed, not rushed. Wherever you're starting from, we'll help you make sense of it.

  • Meet the Team

  • Kim O'Connell, LMFT, MT-BC

    Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

    Music Therapist - Board Certified

  • I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist — and an adult diagnosed with ADHD later in life, which brought equal parts grief and relief: grief for the version of myself who spent years trying to fix what was never broken, and relief in finally having language for it. That shapes how I walk alongside you, your partner, or your family through life's transitions, helping you build a foundation of love, care, and kindness for yourself that ripples into the relationships that matter most.

    I use a systemic, experiential model to help you recognize family patterns, feel grounded when anxious, and build trust with yourself and others — creating real relational wellness through better communication, deeper intimacy, and stronger connection.

    I'm also a mother, which shapes the attentive, unhurried presence I bring into the room. Outside of session, I coach my boys' youth soccer team (a game I played through college), make up songs about everyday life, and have recently discovered a green thumb — hands-in-the-dirt therapy that needs no words at all.

    Kim's Education and Certifications:

    • B.S. Music Therapy, Saint Mary of-the-Woods College, December 2006
    • M.A. Marriage and Family Therapy, Christian Theological Seminary, December 2018
    • ADHD-Certified Clinical Services Provider, ADHD-CCSP - 2026
    • PREPARE-ENRICH certification - 2021
    • Gottman Family Systems Certification- Level 1, 2017
    • Restoration Therapy - Level 1, 2017
    • Neurologic Music Therapy Level 1, 2008

    Kim's Therapy Fees:

    • $200 Initial 75 minute intake session
    • $160 45 minute session

    90 minute sessions are also available as needed.

  • Mike O'Connell, LMFT

    Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (Indiana & North Carolina)

    AAMFT Approved Supervisor Candidate

  • Mike has been featured on MTV's Teen Mom: Young and Pregnant!

    I have a passion to journey with individuals and couples as they seek to restore love and trust in their life and relationships.

    I specialize in working with couples struggling with communication, intimacy, life transitions, and conflict (including infidelity, addiction, abuse, and trauma).

    I also work with men who may be experiencing anxiety, depression, life transitions, paternity, and relationship struggles.

    All clients (individual and couple) will come to understand their behavioral responses caused by our internal experiences of pain, what we refer to as the pain cycle. We will then map out and organize new opportunities for personal responsibility and predictability, referred to as our peace cycle. We will seek together how to practice and strengthen making decisions within our peace cycle instead of making decisions while coping with our pain cycle.

    Mike's Education and Certification:

    • B.A. Theology & History - Marian University
    • M.A. Marriage and Family Therapy - Christian Theological Seminary
    • Emotionally Focused Therapy Externship - 2025
    • Personality Disorders Certification - 2025
    • Restoration Family Therapy certification III - 2023
    • PREPARE-ENRICH certification - 2021
    • Restoration Family Therapy certification II - 2020
    • Restoration Family Therapy certification I - 2017
    • FOCCUS Facilitator - 2017
    • Gottman Family Systems certification I - 2015

    Mike's Therapy Fees:

    • $200 Initial 75 minute intake session
    • $160 45 minute session

    90 minute sessions are also available as needed.

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  • Our Blog!

    Thoughts, musings, and ruminations.
     

    July 2, 2026 · ADHD,ADHD and relationships,attention and focus,parenting with ADHD,family systems
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    February 16, 2026 · sustaining relationships,restorative relationships,friendships that support you,relational health,connection and belonging
    You are likely more loved than you feel on hard days. Love doesn’t always announce itself. It...
    February 6, 2026 · Relationship Repair and Reconnection,Couples Therapy,Relational Presence,Emotional Connection,Valentines Day
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  • Let's Chat!

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    Kim O'Connell's Office Hours

     

    Monday: 9:00am-4:00pm

    Tuesday-Thursday: 9:00am - 5:00pm

    Friday-Sunday: Closed

     

    Mike O'Connell's Office Hours

    Monday: 9:00am-2:30pm

    Tuesday-Thursday: 9:00am-5:00pm

    Friday-Sunday: Closed

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